The Deep Masculine is new territory for many of us. Be smart. Hire a guide.

David Cates has been working this terrain for 40 years. He’s helped thousands of clients navigate practical new approaches to intimacy and sex. He’s trained hundreds of healers. No matter what quirks or fears you have, rest assured, he’s seen it all. With deep compassion, he can guide you home to the wisdom of your own body.

Want immediate results? Book a private phone consultation. Quick, effective, personalized to your specific situation. Stop undermining yourself with doubts, fears and questions. Get answers now.

Is money an issue? Join a group coaching call. Other men are asking the same questions you are, and running into the same obstacles. In a group call, you can step forward and be heard, or sit back and listen in. Either way, you’ll end up feeling less alone – and far more resourced.


Private phone consulting $125/hour. Package discounts available.

Group coaching calls $30/hour per person.


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